Resources for Your Marriage

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Resources for Your Marriage

Here are some great resources for your enrichment. Check to see if you can get them as pdfs, e-books, audios or youtube videos to catapult you into action. Consider also googling these titles and grab the free quotes that they post to get a good taste of what they offer. ENJOY!

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
My husband and I have profited immensely from reading this practical, easy approach to strengthening the love in marriage. Chapman believes spouses must learn to express their love in a language that makes sense to their spouse. He uses concrete examples to develop his five love languages (quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service and physical touch) to show spouses how they can better meet the needs of each other. A highly recommended book for any couple. Great wedding gift. Also offers help with those separated or in difficult situations wanting to regain a stronger marriage. Includes a personal assessment tool that pinpoints what your spouse really desires from you. Consider getting the audio version if you or your spouse is not a reader. That avenue really worked for us.  Take the on-line quiz and consider signing up for his weekly newsletter with 5 love language ideas.

The Temperament God Gave You by Art and Laraine Bennett
This amazingly practical book takes an in-depth look at the four classic temperaments (choleric, sanguine, melancholic and phlegmatic). It provides an assessment tool and lots of advice on how to get along with similar and different temperaments, with chapters on your marriage, parenting and relationships at work. My husband is not a reader of self-help books, but cannot applaud this book enough. So much of the tension in marriage is caused by trying to change rather than appreciate the different temperament of one’s spouse. I am learning so much from this book and use it as a constant reference. Definitely worth ordering. Even consider just taking their quiz. 

For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn
An excellent easy read OR AUDIO for women trying to understand the inner workings of their husband. Full of eye-opening information that will equip you to not only understand, but better support and love your husband in the ways he most appreciates. I got a lot out of this book and highly recommend it. It’s companion book, For Men Only is equally worthwhile. They have also written for a younger audience under the titles of For Young Men Only and For Young Women Only. Very worthwhile for highschool/college students to read.

The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages by Shaunti Feldhahn
Just published in 2014 in the same style as her other books, this is an excellent read for couples. Shaunti identifies 12 powerful habits that the happiest marriages have in common. Excellent read!

The Four Seasons of Marriage by Gary Chapman
A practical, encouraging book that details the different seasons of marriage and how to push ourselves into spring when we feel we are in fall or winter. Lots of insights.

Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married by Gary Chapman
Whether you are hoping to marry, newly married or long time married, this book gives a lot of insight into many aspects that can make or hinder a happy marriage. A great gift for the engaged.  Highly insightful to avoid problems after marriage.

The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman, Ph. D., and Nan Silver.
A marriage expert with much research, Dr. Gottman presents excellent ideas on how to strengthen a marriage. Very recommended for reading. Although I haven’t used them, there are many other audio/mp3/books/videos available at the Gottman Institute website.

For Better or Best and If Only He Knew by Gary Smalley
These two books make great wedding gifts and should be owned by most couples. They help each spouse understand, communicate and love the other much more deeply. Very practical, positive and eye-opening. Lots of do’s and don’ts for healthy marriages. My husband and I learned so much from them.

Love is a Decision by Gary Smalley and John Trent
Thirteen proven principles are presented to energize your marriage and family. You’ll discover how to energize your spouse in 60 seconds, how to respond when anger, fear and frustration hit and keys to loving and lasting relationships.

Divorce Busting  and The Divorce Remedy by Michele Weiner-Davis
Two super excellent resources for those experiencing  problems in their marriage.Easy bite size advice with great anecdotes.  Offers marriage saving techniques that get results within a month, focuses on solutions rather than problems and can be used alone or with your spouse. Tons of practical advice for anyone suffering problems in marriage. I learned so much! Not just for those headed towards divorce.

Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage by Mark Gungor
A DVD series that humorously looks at the differences between men and women. My husband and I laughed so hard, but learned so much to enrich our marriage. Our older teen and adult children equally benefited. A sure hit with the men! Catch sections of this  DVD on youtube.  The book was informative, but there were many sections I did not personally agree with. The DVD was so much better.

5 Things Women Need To Know About Men by Dr. Allen Hunt
An audio talk with simple, helpful and inspiring advice to enrich your marriage and relationship.

Marriage: A Path to Sanctity by Javier Abad
An excellent read for those who believe marriage is a path to holiness. Many insights from a Catholic viewpoint on courtship, sexuality, communication, work and children.

Good News About Sex and Marriage by Christopher West
Answers to your honest questions about Catholic teaching on sex and marriage. A superb, easy to understand book that goes into all the questions you have ever had on the topic and never known who to ask. Solid, logical answers to help you embrace the true joy of the marital embrace.  Check out the amazing website he began called Theology of the Body Institute.

Tender Warrior: God’s Intention for A Man by Stu Weber
A great father’s day gift for your husband. Written by a dynamic Christian pastor, this book recognizes that it’s tough being a man in today’s society. Weber provides a powerful blueprint for balance manhood, thereby providing a great opportunity for achievement. Lots of attention given to man’s impressive and important roles of husband and father.

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands and The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Dr. Laura bluntly addresses what a woman can do to make her man happy. She speaks directly to women about the things they do to create problems in their marriage. This is not a book for delicate readers, but I found it full of many lights for myself on how I was nurturing problems in my marriage.

Men are From mars, Women are From Venus by John Gray
Insights into how vastly different men and women are in their responses and reactions to each other and life. A good read.

By Love Refined by Alice von Hildebrand
A nice gift for the newly married. The book is written in the format of letters to a new bride.

Automatic Millionaire and Smart Couples Finish Rich by David Bach
People often ask me, Irene, how we can afford ten kids, the house we live in and two cars. These books hold the answer and wonderfully cheer you on to financial fitness. No matter who you are, what stage of life you are at and what your income is, you can benefit from this easy-to-apply approach.

The Couple’s Guide to Love and Money by Jonathan Rich
A practical easy-to-use workbook for couples who find their fights over money eroding their good feelings for each other. Filled with techniques to optimize communication and deepen marital unity. A great resource.

Anger: Handling a Powerful Emotion by Gary Chapman
An easy, constructive and very helpful read for all of us who suffer from anger towards a spouse, a child, a boss, a relative or anyone. Very helpful.

GOOD WEBSITES:

www.5lovelanguages.com
Gary Chapman helps people discover the power of the five love languages need for strong loving relationships. He is the author of numerous books and gives much practical advice for all kinds of people.

www.family.org
A website for husbands and wives by Focus on the Family. Tons of excellent articles and resources to strengthen your marriage.

www.gottman.com
The Gottman Institute offers great books and DVDs for married couples. I encourage you to order Making Relationships Work as an MP3 to listen to with your spouse. Practical, well-researched, very constructive.

National Marriage Project, USA
Fantastic research studies supporting stronger marriages and family. Easy to read and very helpful.

Cardus
A think tank of scientific research on important subjects pertaining to marriage and family worth knowing.

www.retrouvaille.org
Retrouvaille offers numerous articles and programs to strengthen marriages. The word Retrouvaille, simply means ‘rediscovery’. Their program offers the chance to rediscover yourself, your spouse, and a loving relationship in your marriage. 10’s of 1000’s headed for divorce have successfully saved their marriages by attending.

www.wwme.org
Marriage Encounter offers weekend programs to strengthen engaged and married couples. Great articles available for reading.

www.marriagebuilders.com
Marriage Builders offers articles, downloads and information on preparing for and strengthening marriage, dealing with conflict, infidelity, alcoholism, and much more. Practical, helpful and well-stated.

www.mint.com
Excellent website to help you keep track of your money expenses.

www.daveramsey.com
A super fantastic website to help you navigate all your financial concerns.

 

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